Protecting Our Pride: LGBTQ Estate Planning

Protecting Our Pride: LGBTQ Estate Planning in Iowa


Planning with Pride, Protection, and Peace of Mind

Every family deserves the same peace of mind that comes from having a clear plan in place. At Modern Counsel, we understand that LGBTQ individuals and couples often face unique challenges when it comes to estate planning. We created the Protecting Our Pride Package to make sure your wishes are honored, your loved ones are protected, and your family is recognized under Iowa law.


Whether you’re married, partnered, co-parenting, or building a chosen family, we’ll help you create an estate plan that reflects who you are and who you love.

Why LGBTQ Estate Planning Matters

While marriage equality is the law, there are still gaps in how legal systems recognize and protect LGBTQ families. Without the right documents, important decisions about your health, finances, or estate could fall into the hands of someone other than the person you would choose.



A tailored estate plan helps you:

  • Ensure your partner, spouse, or chosen family can make medical and financial decisions if you cannot
  • Secure parental rights and guardianship arrangements for children
  • Clarify your wishes for inheritance and property distribution
  • Protect your privacy and reduce the risk of family conflict or legal challenges
  • Guarantee that your final wishes are respected and carried out exactly as intended


Planning ahead gives you control and peace of mind, knowing that your story and your family are fully protected.

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The Protecting Our Pride Package


Our Protecting Our Pride Package includes the essential documents every LGBTQ individual or couple should have, along with thoughtful additions designed to address the unique needs of our community.


Your customized package may include:

  • Last Will and Testament
  • Revocable Living Trust (if desired)
  • Durable Financial Power of Attorney
  • Healthcare Power of Attorney and Living Will
  • HIPAA Authorization (so your partner or chosen family can access medical information)
  • Declaration of Disposition of Remains
  • Parenting and Guardianship Declarations (for non-biological or co-parents)
  • Hospital Visitation Authorization
  • Nomination of Guardian and Conservator
  • Beneficiary Designations Review and Guidance


We’ll work together to design a plan that fits your relationship, family structure, and future goals. Whether you’re protecting your home, your children, or your chosen family, your plan will reflect your life exactly as it is.


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How Modern Counsel Can Help


Modern Counsel was built on the belief that the law should be accessible, inclusive, and empowering for everyone. We know that trust matters, and we’re here to listen, guide, and help you navigate every decision with care and understanding.



We offer virtual meetings to make planning easy and private. You can review your documents securely online, ask questions at any time, and move at your own pace. Our goal is to make the process simple, comfortable, and affirming.


Plan with Pride and Confidence

Your story matters. Your family matters. Your legacy matters. The Protecting Our Pride Package was designed to honor all three.


Together, we’ll create a plan that protects what you’ve built, recognizes who you love, and gives you lasting peace of mind.

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Your Story, Your Plan, Your Peace of Mind

Your future deserves thoughtful planning. Contact us today to start creating an estate plan that protects your loved ones and honors your wishes.

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